As We Forgive...
I've been thinking a lot about forgiveness lately, especially since the young man who hit and killed my brother-in-law has now been shown to have had an accomplice in fabricating a cover-story.
One of my friends has explored the topic of forgiveness in depth over the past several years.
The first time I met Catherine Larson, we were sitting in the back seat of a van full of journalists. We discovered almost instantly that we both had a heart for Rwanda. The husband of one of my students had lost six family members in the genocide, and Catherine had landed her job at Prison Fellowship writing a story about the war-torn country.
When I saw Larson a year later, her friend had released the documentary, As We Forgive, which focuses on reconciliation following Rwanda’s events. That movie inspired Larson to work on a book by the same title in which she desired to include stories of reconciliation from Rwanda. Zondervan released that book in February, and it’s a wonderful resource.
In her book Larson explores some hard questions: If you were told that a murderer was to be released into your neighborhood, how would you feel? What if it weren’t only one, but thousands? Can a country known for its radical brutality become a country known for an even more radical forgiveness?
These questions are not hypothetical. More than a decade after the 1994 genocide, the Rwandan government released tens of thousands of murderers back into the communities they ravaged. Survivors and perpetrators have had to learn to live again as neighbors. As We Forgive explores the pain, the mystery, and the hope through seven compelling stories as victims, orphans, widows, and perpetrators journey toward reconciliation.
Could there be a common roadmap to reconciliation? Could there be a shared future after unthinkable evil? If forgiveness is possible after the slaughter of nearly a million in a hundred days in Rwanda, then today, more than ever, we owe it to humanity to explore how one country is addressing perceptual, social-psychological, and spiritual dimensions to achieve a more lasting peace. If forgiveness is possible after genocide, perhaps there is hope for the comparably smaller rifts that plague our relationships, our communities, and our nation.
World magazine reported, “Catherine Claire Larson traveled to Rwanda to learn about the forgiveness journeys of both victims and perpetrators of the 1994 genocide. She tells the victims’ brutal stories of murder, rape, and betrayal, and also tells the murderers’ stories of joining the killing madness and (in some cases) becoming weighed down by guilt and shame. Larson describes face-to-face meetings between the guilty and the innocent, and how repentance, forgiveness, and reconciliation occurred. She sensitively conveys her subjects’ stories and pulls from them lessons about forgiveness that all of us must learn.”
Readers find in Larson's reporting how suffering, memory, and identity set up roadblocks to forgiveness, while mediation, truth-telling, restitution, and interdependence create bridges to healing. As We Forgive explores the pain, the mystery, and the hope through seven compelling narratives of those who have made a difficult journey toward reconciliation. The result is a text that breathes with humanity and is as haunting as it is hopeful.
For more information, check out the book's web site: http://www.asweforgivebook.com/