Elders from a Dallas church recently wrestled with the biblical text and how it relates to the role of women in ministry. On their web site you can find their conclusions, along with some recommended books.

If I were to add a couple more resources, it would be these:

Recovering Biblical Ministry by Women by George and Dora Winston

Are Women Human? by the oh-so-witty Dorothy L. Sayers

When Life and Beliefs Collide by Carolyn Custis James